5 Tips To Cure Your Dog’s Separation Anxiety

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Most dog owners have a special bond with their canine friends and would never want to leave their sides. But life sometimes gets in the way of what we want to do with a myriad of responsibilities. As much as we would like to spend all day playing fetch and scratching our dogs’ bellies, work calls.

This is where most dog lovers have their hearts broken. When you hear the echoes of your dog’s cries as you leave for work, doesn’t it pluck at the strings of your heart?

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Many dogs are fine when left alone, but a lot of dogs have a condition known as separation anxiety, which can either manifest itself seriously or nearly harmlessly.

In this guide, we’ll help you by giving you some tips on how to deal with puppy separation anxiety. This guide will help you find the causes of your dog’s behavior and will help you take active steps to fix it so you can get on with your life and not feel bad for leaving your pup at home.

Understanding Your Pup’s Problems

What to do about a dog with separation anxiety? This question’s plagued many a dog lover. Thankfully, over the decades of having our wonderful furry friends in our lives, techniques and strategies have been developed to fight these issues.

Nobody wants to leave their dog feeling as if they were abandoned, so here's what you can do about it.


Walks are one of the most powerful tools you have in your arsenal as a dog owner. During your walks, you get to assert your dominance as the leader in your relationship with your pet. With leash in hand, you get to calm your pet down knowing it has its master and friend in the lead.

By taking your dog on a walk before you leave the house, you get to give the dog exercise which releases endorphins that are natural calming agents in the body. You also get your dog tired which means they won’t be as tense or stressed when you are leaving the house; this allows you to lull your dog into a relaxed state.

Don’t Excite Them

We love to have fun and roughhouse with our dogs; it's one of the many perks of being a pet owner. Seeing as dogs are loving and caring creatures that like to be stimulated visually, mentally and physically, they'll need a lot of attention. You’ll have to try and communicate with your pet in the best way possible.

Try not to get your pet excited as you’re leaving the house, as that will only leave them more disappointed once you’ve departed.

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Imagine this from the perspective of a child: if your parents were to come and suddenly start playing with you before leaving you alone with a babysitter, you’d likely be disappointed. On the other hand, if you were left to sleep, then you wouldn’t even notice their departure.

Let Them Know You’re Leaving

Talking to your pets is a very healthy activity and actually helps with bonding. Most pet owners tend to do this similarly to how a parent would talk to there child.

There’s no reason to be afraid of being the butt of a couple of jokes just because you love interacting with your pet. As animal lovers, people truly feel as though their pets understand them when they speak, and the truth is that we don’t know the full extent of our pets’ comprehension.

Talking to your pet is a great tool to reduce dog separation anxiety. When you are about to leave the house, tell them you’re leaving so they won’t become too anxious while you’re gone. Of course, you won’t want to wake them up from an otherwise restful nap.

Over time, your dog will start to associate the words that you tell them before leaving with your departure, so they’ll be able to learn that you’re eventually coming back.

How Anxious Does Your Dog Get?

People from across the board who've owned pets will tell you they have different personalities, from the tiny differences in the way they react to the way you talk to them. Most pets respond to your tone of voice depending on the type of relationship that you've had with them.

Certain animals have specific ways they interact with humans; some can be playful and others more introverted. Knowing this, you must work with your pet according to its personality.

How anxious does your pet get? If your pet gets extremely upset, then the best approach would be to go slowly maybe do practice runs where you would start with 10 minutes of being away at a time. If they are less anxious, the best route would be to increase their tolerance training faster.


Dogs need to be trained if we want them to do something, and this would apply in every aspect of the pet and owner relationship. Famously, Pavlov has shown that we can train our pets with habitual exposure to the stimuli we want them to react to. This can also apply to removing or negating the poor behaviors we see in them as our companions.

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Dog separation anxiety training needs to be done on a regular basis and must be performed with intent and focus. This is the only way to desensitize our barking brethren to being alone for extended periods of time. 

We have to realize the concept of being alone in an apartment is solely a human trait, and dogs have to be trained before they get used to it.


Any of the methods we’ve outlined above should help you train your dog to get over its separation anxiety. Our furry friends shouldn’t have to suffer when we go away during the day. We hope that this guide has been able to help. Feel free to leave a comment down below and let us know what you think.

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